Me. Myself & i

In the library now, i've jus read an email by my ex.
Mixed feelings.
Thinking back about what happened between us, we had our good times we had our bad ones as well...
I can't help but think that whatever he is complaining about now is what he had done to me once not very long ago. As always, my stories, i tried too hard, i got sick of trying, i want to move on.
I nid to grow up and learn to be independant, hence i've gotta be alone. When i don't wanna dismiss the possibility of us again, i don't wanna give false hope to him now.

I step back, i see things that i never would have if all i thought about was being with him. I see so many things that we have to overcome and i don't see his support. I see a relationship that needs so much work, i don't see his effort.
Relationship is hard work, it is a commitment. And commitment is when u make that decision over and over again.
You and i don't need and cannot afford that right now. What i was ready to give up, i'm not sure about it right now. I'm not sure it is worth it right now.
When you say u're willing to give up ur As to be with me, i think about the time i ran after you outside the com lab, begging you to talk to me. You told me you were stressed out and relationship should be the last thing on ur mind. When the stress kicks in, our relationship cannot handle it. The commitment is lost.. I think about the time when we have criminal law paper, ur losing of temper at my house. I'm sorry i haven mention these to you before, i din think it would have made a difference.
I have to keep a distant from you, in order for you to step back, and re-evaluate our relationship. See the problems that i see, when you have an ans to them, perhaps we could get back together. It is outside of religion and outside of backgrounds. it is about character, it is about ideas, it is about expectations, it is about how we handle ourselves and situation.
Simple communication hasn't worked for us. That's why i've decided to break up. I hope we can meet people, see and experience things that will broaden our perspectives. To be able to accept each and other.

I will despise myself, if i cont to let u hold my hands now. Because i'll be toying with you. Because i respect you, i cannot bring myself to.
If you have to hate me for it now, i can only say, i've been through that, it will be harder if i gave it.

Wenrong