Me. Myself & i

adapted from some where... i like de analogy..
very true...
take some time to read yeah?

A relationship starts off as a clear piece of
paper. A guy and a gal
agrees to write on that piece of paper. When it
starts, both r excited as
it's their first time working together. They
fill up the paper with the
best of things they can think of. Sometimes the
guy writes more, sometimes
the gal writes more. Some people writes without
thinking much, some writes
after some thought.


As the writing carries on, it gets more and more
tiring. The couple have
to be motivated to keep on writing.This is the
commitment and
responsibility of a relationship.As long as the
urge to write
continues,the writing will never end.It will
carry on paper after paper
until one pen's ink run out. This is eternal
love till death do us
apart...


Some couples prefer to write together,some write
their own and combine the
efforts.Neither side should be the only one
writing,else ink may get
blocked for the party who writes non-stop. Too
tired...


The character of a person is like the
handwriting on the paper... Everyone
has his/her handwriting. It is very difficult to
change one's
handwriting.Not impossible but it takes a lot of
time and hard work.


The outcome may not be desirable.It is also
difficult to imitate the
handwritings of another person.The most one can
do is to be tidier or more
untidy in their handwritings.Sometimes,to make
the writing on the paper
look more presentable,it could be necessary for
either side to slightly
alter the style of his/her handwritings...


A mistake in love is like a smudge on the
paper... Whether purposely or
accidentally a smudge is a smudge. No matter how
well the writing has
gone.So far or how lovely is the content, a
smudge will leave a mark no
matter how well u cover it (eraser, liquid
paper, etc.). Whether to keep
on writing will depend on the perception of the
couple. Whether they mind
the content more or the outlook of the piece of
work more.


Worst case is when the paper is torn. It'll
leave a very ugly mark. Well,
the decision lies with the couple...


To break-off is to stop writing... Many reasons
can lead to this ending.
One party could be the one writing non-stop and
really too tired to carry
on anymore. One party or both could be
unsatisfied with the content or
really dislike what each other is writing (it
takes time to know the
writing style of someone,it could be halfway
through the paper before it
is known).


Or a smudge exists and either one or both mind
(depend on their level of
perfectionism). Or it could be what they r
writing r contradicting each
other. It can also be the case where one party
finds another partner to
write with...


Other analogies... Pen users r serious lovers.
Those who use pencils like
to test things out first. Some even write drafts
with other people
(many-timers).


After a breakup, a photocopy of the writings so
far is made and this is
given to a party while the other keeps the
original (for memories).Or it
could be either or neither will keep the
writings. It could also be the
original work lies there waiting for the
original writers to be back.


A well-done masterpiece could be bound into a
book and kept
forever.Likewise in some cases, it may be pieces
of paper lying
around.Different people writes different things
and have different
outcomes.In the case of people going through
many relationships, it's just
like changing partners to work with.


Some may write things according to past
experiences or have new ideas.
While writing, the couple may exchange their
pens. In a new relationship,
one party might mind that his/her partner's pen
has been used by other
people before.Personally I believe this also
applies to friendship right?


It also requires both parties to play their part
to keep the friendship
forever lasting.


You only live once. What do you really want to
do and achieve in life?


Let's think, learn & share. It is a meaningful
journey.